JameisBrownston wrote: ↑Sat Dec 07, 2024 6:48 pm
I'm curious about the particular circumstances surrounding this incident. Was Tyrer known to have been violent toward his wife or at least angry at each other in the months leading up to the murder? Was there any infidelity involved on either side that could have instigated a jealous outrage? Or did all signs indicate they were still fully committed to each other and in a happy relationship to the bitter end?
If the latter, I can see a scenario where this wasn't entirely senseless. Tyrer knew his brain was scrambled and was desperate to get rid of it, but he couldn't bear to be apart from her or watch her live on in grief without him. Therefore, the only option in his mind was to take her with him, and gamble on her not hating him forever over it. Obviously I'm not in a position to know what murder-suicide perpetrators are thinking, but it wouldn't surprise me if this is often how they convince themselves to go through with it. I'm just gonna leave that out there and back away quietly now...
Hi Jameis. This piece from Ron Borges that Frank Cooney published is the most important piece that anyone can read on Tyrer. It's the letter that Borges sent to voters and is a major part of the reason that he's advanced this far:
https://halloffootball.substack.com/p/j ... rs-insight
Overview:
* Tyrer's wife Martha brought him to a doctor in the week before the incident, and told the doctor, "There's something terribly wrong with Jim."
* Martha and the four children all noticed changes in Tyrer's behavior, including more outbursts and debilitating headaches
* The doctor asked Tyrer if he felt depressed and he said, "No, it's worse than that."
* Shortly after the murder-suicide, the four children went to counseling. Borges interviewed one of the children for this letter, the oldest one who found the bodies, and he said that after one session in counseling they didn't go back because "we had no anger toward our dad."
* That son, Brad, told Borges that they all recognized the changes in their father and that the changes were so extreme that "That was not my dad." Key paragraph from Brad Tyrer:
“My dad’s legacy is inaccurate. The thing my family has struggled with all these years is we knew long before we heard of CTE the man in that bedroom was not our dad. He was a guy who never cussed, never raised his voice, never argued with our Mom. We have always held him in high regard. The four of us went to family counseling once after it happened. We never went back because we had no anger toward our dad.”
* The doctor says he has no doubt that Tyrer had CTE
* The four children have led the push for Tyrer to get elected
* Martha's parents raised the four children
* When Martha's father died, Martha's mother had Martha's AND Jim's ashes buried with the father to keep them all together
It's a remarkable story, and one I find very compelling.